Why do we choose perticular career
Hi friends , this is one of the big questions for our lives that what kind of careers should be chosen which suits one's natural ability and can give us the comfort of current world. Many of us take help from parents, friend, and few others go for particular career by inspiring from other eminent people of respective field.
But, every one has basic instinct for particular career, and probably they exactly know that for what reason and with what skills they have come in this world. But do you think that majority of people go for the right career or work for which they have native skills and call of their instinct ? probably not, there are certain factors from out side the world which affect people badly and they choose which is the most convenient for them. Just imagine about yourself and then you will realize that what you have missed from your life. People are intelligent they have the capabilities to learn other set of skills which they do not have from their birth, like a "Painter" may become the doctor because his father wants him to be a doctor or many f immediate contacts have degree in medicine. But if your born to be painter it is almost impossible for you to forget your natural call for painting. You will miss it whenever you see a painting or it may be possible that you have the feeling that something is missing but you do not exactly that what is missing from your life.
Even the most successful people in their field may not have the satisfaction for their great work they have done. What I want to say is that one can get the peace until she/he finds the reason for which he was born. no matter what amount of wealth or fame you have earned in physical world your soul will remain the thirsty. The deepest corner of the heart will say that Man !!! you are not made for this purpose,
It means, we are equipped with the native set of skills and have the capabilities to learn more. So, what we have to do just go for what our heart say or change out lives to make it our lives more comfortable than before. Probably no one can answer this question. It is your heart and your decision. If you are able to realize the reason of your existence in this world you would like to go for your natural call or the career which can satisfy your soul or you may earn tons of wealth but with the countinuous feeling that something is missing from your life.
what I personally think we must pay sometime to ask one question to ourselves that why we exist in this world ? for the work that we are doing or for the things which our heart says every single moment to us but never try to listen it.
But, every one has basic instinct for particular career, and probably they exactly know that for what reason and with what skills they have come in this world. But do you think that majority of people go for the right career or work for which they have native skills and call of their instinct ? probably not, there are certain factors from out side the world which affect people badly and they choose which is the most convenient for them. Just imagine about yourself and then you will realize that what you have missed from your life. People are intelligent they have the capabilities to learn other set of skills which they do not have from their birth, like a "Painter" may become the doctor because his father wants him to be a doctor or many f immediate contacts have degree in medicine. But if your born to be painter it is almost impossible for you to forget your natural call for painting. You will miss it whenever you see a painting or it may be possible that you have the feeling that something is missing but you do not exactly that what is missing from your life.
Even the most successful people in their field may not have the satisfaction for their great work they have done. What I want to say is that one can get the peace until she/he finds the reason for which he was born. no matter what amount of wealth or fame you have earned in physical world your soul will remain the thirsty. The deepest corner of the heart will say that Man !!! you are not made for this purpose,
It means, we are equipped with the native set of skills and have the capabilities to learn more. So, what we have to do just go for what our heart say or change out lives to make it our lives more comfortable than before. Probably no one can answer this question. It is your heart and your decision. If you are able to realize the reason of your existence in this world you would like to go for your natural call or the career which can satisfy your soul or you may earn tons of wealth but with the countinuous feeling that something is missing from your life.
what I personally think we must pay sometime to ask one question to ourselves that why we exist in this world ? for the work that we are doing or for the things which our heart says every single moment to us but never try to listen it.
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- It is your blessing, the path God has chosen for you here on Earth. Whenever a man does that which gives him enthusiasm, he is following his Legend. However, not everyone has the courage to face up to his own dreams.
- Why is that?
- There are four obstacles. The first: he has heard, right from childhood, that everything he wishes to live is impossible. He grows up with this idea, and as he acquires age, he also accumulates layers of prejudices, fears, guilt. There comes a time when his Personal Legend is so deeply buried within his soul, he can no longer see it. But it is still there.
“If he has the courage to unearth his dreams, he then faces a second obstacle: love. He now knows what he desires to do, but he thinks he will harm those around him, if he gives everything up to follow his dreams. He does not understand that love is an additional impulse, not something which hinders one from going forward. He does not understand that those who truly wish him well are longing for his happiness, and are ready to accompany him on this adventure.
“After accepting love as a stimulus, a man faces the third obstacle: the fear of the defeats he will encounter along the way. A man who fights for his dream suffers far more when something doesn’t go well, because he cannot use the famous excuse: “oh, well in fact that wasn’t exactly what I wanted anyway…” He does want it, and knows he is putting everything into it, and also that the Personal Legend is just as difficult as any other path - the difference being that your heart is present on this journey. So, a warrior of the light must be prepared to be patient at difficult times, and know that the Universe is conspiring in his favor, even if he does not understand how.
- Are the defeats necessary?
- Whether necessary or not, they occur. When he begins fighting for his dreams, man has no experience, and makes many mistakes. But the secret in life is to fall seven times, and rise up eight times.
- Why is it important to live the Personal Legend, if we are to suffer just as much as others?
- Because after having overcome the defeats - and we always overcome them - we feel much more euphoria and confidence. In the silence of our hearts, we know we are worthy of the miracle of life. Each day, each hour, is part of the Good Combat. We begin to live with enthusiasm and pleasure. Very intense and unexpected suffering begins passing faster than apparently tolerable suffering: that drags on for years, eroding our soul without us noticing what is happening - until one day we can no longer free ourselves of the bitterness, and it accompanies us for the rest of our lives.
- And what is the fourth obstacle?
- After unearthing your dream, using the power of love for support, spending many years with the scars, a man realizes - from one day to the next - that everything he always wanted is right there, waiting for him, perhaps the very next day. Then comes the fourth obstacle: the fear of realizing the dream he has fought for all his life.
- That makes no sense.
- Oscar Wilde said that we always destroy the thing we love the most. And it is true. The simple possibility of achieving that which we desire causes the soul of the common man to be filled with guilt. He looks around, and sees many others who have not succeeded, and so he thinks he does not deserve it. He forgets everything he overcame, all he suffered, everything he had to renounce in order to come this far. I know many people who, when they are within reach of their Personal Legend, make a series of silly mistakes and do not attain their objective - when it was just one step away.
“This is the most dangerous of the obstacles, because it has a certain aura of sanctity about it: to renounce to joy and the conquest. But if the man is worthy of that which he has fought so hard for, he then becomes an instrument of God, aids the Soul of the World, and understands why he is there”.
-Paulo Coelho